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Survey: 69.2% of the respondents confirmed that there is a phenomenon of infant birthday comparisons around them

时间:2017-12-26 15:12:44 Source: China Youth DailyTime: 2017-12-26 15:12:44

69.2% of the respondents confirmed that there is a phenomenon of children's birthday comparisons around them

73.1% of respondents believe that parents should let children establish correct values from an early age

Nowadays, some kindergartens have their children ’s birthday comparisons. The first birthday child asks the whole class to ride a horse, and the second child ’s birthday party is reserved for a play ... The comparison competition is constantly escalating, some parents complain, children It costs too much for birthday.

A few days ago, a survey conducted by the China Youth Daily's Social Survey Center on a questionnaire network showed that 69.2% of the respondents confirmed that there is a phenomenon of children's birthday comparison. Facing the comparison, 73.1% of the respondents believe that parents should let their children establish the correct values from an early age.

69.2% of the respondents confirmed that there is a phenomenon of children's birthday comparisons around them

The son of Zhang Qiao (pseudonym), a staff member of a state-owned enterprise in Beijing, is in kindergarten. "The children in the class have birthdays, and there are people who invite everyone to eat a big meal. It's good to pass. "

Chen Yang, associate professor of the School of Journalism at Renmin University of China, has a five-year-old child. Chen Yang feels that the comparison in kindergartens is not serious. "Sometimes children had birthdays and invited everyone to party at home, but there are also many children who have a birthday. It's easy. Children like me will buy a cake and share it with the children."

Polls show that 69.2% of the respondents confirmed that there is a phenomenon of children's birthday comparison. 48.4% of the respondents said that the children's competition was actively participated by the parents, and 30.1% of the respondents said that the children requested it.

Wang Qiaohong, a teacher of a public kindergarten in Shandong, believes that the phenomenon of "high levels" of children ’s birthday consumption levels is mainly caused by the vanity and comparison of parents. Parents should guide. "

Why do young children compare each other on their birthdays? 59.8% of the respondents think that it is the parents in order to satisfy vanity and show their identity; 58.3% of the respondents believe that they formed under the name of "love him to give him the best" Bad comparison. Others are: "being followed", afraid of losing their children's face in front of others (48.5%); if you love children, you should be rich and give them the best (37.5%); "do not let children lose on the starting line" psychological Overflow (23.8%).

In this regard, 65.5% of the respondents believe that children should learn to be thrifty and thrifty at an early age, and that birthdays should not be extravagant and wasteful; 30.6% of respondents believe that how children spend their birthdays is related to family conditions, and it is understandable; 11.1% of respondents believe that as long as Parents can do the best they can.

87.6% of respondents believe that material life in early childhood has a great impact on children's future development

Wang Qiaohong believes that, whether it is a child ’s birthday or a gift, it should be within the family's affordable range, and the family's usual consumption level is the main factor. "The behavior of parents' excessive comparisons will affect their children and should be prohibited."

87.6% of the respondents believed that children ’s material life such as food and clothing had a great impact on their future development in kindergarten, and 26.1% of them considered the impact to be very large.

Chen Lijun (pseudonym), a teacher of a private kindergarten in Beijing, believes that the school organization can prevent the comparison by celebrating the birthday together. "In addition, Chen Lijun will also cultivate the children's habits of diligence and thrift in class." Life is education, and parents' habits and behaviors will affect their children in a subtle way. Therefore, parents should lead by example. "

Chen Yang feels that family education has a deeper impact on children. If there is a phenomenon of comparison between families, in addition to educating children, schools must also persuade parents who have a comparison spirit.

In the face of comparison, 73.1% of the respondents believe that parents should let their children establish the correct values from a young age; 60.7% of the respondents suggested that parents communicate with their children when they have a comparison mind, and guide their children to focus on dating and learning instead of comparison. Extravagant; 53.0% of the respondents hope that their parents can act according to their own conditions and relax their mindset without comparison; 29.7% of the respondents suggest that schools promote a culture of diligence and frugality to teachers and students.

Among the respondents, 33.9% lived in first-tier cities, 39.6% in second-tier cities, 20.4% in third- and fourth-tier cities, 4.7% in counties or towns, and 1.4% in rural areas.

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